Notes:
discretion 慎重さ;
gossip うわさ話;
maturity 成熟;
definite 確定的
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In college life, knowing when to speak and when to remain silent is a key part of maturity. Some matters are best kept private to avoid misunderstanding and conflict.
Secret 1: Family Finances
Your family’s financial situation should stay confidential. Talking about it too freely can lead to unnecessary comparison or discomfort among friends.
Secret 2: Love Life
Your romantic relationships and emotions need discretion. Sharing too much may invite gossip or strain friendships.
Secret 3: Opinions of Others
Be careful when expressing opinions about teachers or classmates. Honest words can unintentionally damage relationships.
Secret 4: Mental Stress
If you feel mentally tired, speak to a counselor instead of peers. Not everyone can handle emotional discussions responsibly.
Secret 5: Future Plans
Keep future goals—like studying abroad or starting a business—quiet until they are definite.
In short, true growth means protecting your privacy and speaking wisely.
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